No Sex in the City

Drag can be complicated to your life as a man. Once guys start to realize that you do drag they can be put off by it, because they think you want to be a woman. Or they think they will be judged for being the boyfriend or husband of a drag queen.

So it's hard to have a social life outside of drag with boys, or get dates. People see me as Ciara Mist, not James. And with my facebook for Ciara, and youtube. That population that I have never met or seen, it's a common mis conception that I am a trans gendered person. But I have never had cosmetic surgery. Nor do I plan to.

I was talking to my friend Kyle (who is Selena Terrace) he and I were talking about how this is a good blog topic because it VERY common that once a gay guy starts doing drag it is their commitment to living single as long as your drag persona is alive.

But the way I look at it is that I need to do what makes me happy, drag has become lucrative enough, and I love the transformation. So I face it the best that I can. If someone cannot see that drag doesn't change who I am, and that I am still James, then they are not someone that I should try and have any sort of relationship with.